Tuesday, August 29, 2006

Pics of the week

Liks concert on Thursday night

Melo: Best player on team USA? Most consistent offensive threat? Who woulda thought.

Sunday, August 27, 2006

Sometimes you meet a bunch of people and you don't realise how well you get along. How well you will work together. And how successful you will all be one day.
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In December 2002, I had this crazy idea of doing this uni competition called HEWSO (Higher Education Workplace Olympiad). It occurred to me that I didn't have a lot of stuff to fill out my resume. Me, being one of those prepared people, I was already looking out for summer clerkships and internships in 2004. I needed some ammo to sell myself.

So I decided to put my name down and convinced Dawen, Tim and Carol to join in. Suffice to say, I was only prepared to put in minimal effort over the course of the summer. It turns out that we also had extra group members join us - Malik, Rosa, and Olivia.

Contray to my original plans, we worked our butts off that summer. We met up every couple of days during our uni holidays, put in long hours, and even did an all-nighter. I was up til 3am in the morning preparing our report. Sat on the uni couches in the lobby with Carol who's car was locked in til 7am. Got home, slept like 2 hours, and went back to uni to add the final touches. This is what happens when you put a bunch of high achievers and motivated people together who don't want to let each other down.

The thing was, this competition didn't even count for anything! There was no credit points for this. It wasn't even a subject! A few weeks later we gave a presentation to Kimberly Clark (the makers of Kleenex tissues) and they loved us. I still remember the call from Carol, I think I was in a bit of shock when I learnt that we had beaten out all comers from UTS!

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Fast forward 3.5 years: Where y'all at now?

- Tim's on a working holiday in Canada, New York, UK after managing the family business.
- Dawen's a senior accountant at a top insolvency accounting firm
- Carol's an accountant at a boutique investment bank
- Olivia is a lawyer at a big law firm
- Cameron's doing his MBA
-Rosa's a business analyst at Big 4 accounting firm.
- Malik's working and studying an education degree at Newcastle Uni.

Me? I'm still blogging! Still the same old me.

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We had a great time at Baia, an Italian restaurant on Cocklebay Wharf reminiscing about that all-nighter, our team name ("NeoStrategy" - represent!). And then we topped it off with our favourtie team activity - Karaoke!

I don't know why, I have this urge tonite to do something I've been pondering for a while. It's been my dream to have my own business. And I also want to start making some investments as well - such as trading on the stock exchange. Not large amounts. Money that I can afford to risk/play around with (hopefully not lose!). Maybe its a result of meeting all those HEWSO folks again.

My eyes are on the bigger prize. I can see it now. DJ Ho Inc! I like the sound of that. Successful business people show traits from a young age. I dont know what I want to do. Import/Export/E-Business/Services. No idea yet. Where can I see an opportunity now or in the future that isn't being serviced by the market. An area that I can build up a competitive advantage.

Who knows. Maybe its all talk. Rome wasn't built in a day and neither was DJ Ho Inc.

I'm out like 3.5 years,

DJ Ho.

Saturday, August 19, 2006

Hobbies I tell you

It's a saturday night, and i'm at home! arrghhhh! Not really in the mood to go to sky gardens nightclub for a party. Given that I've deferred studying for 6 months (well really indefinently) I've got free time on my hands. Every night I come home and I'm just heaps tired and just sit in front of the tv. Friday & Saturday nights, I'm usually clubbing and drinking. I'm thinking I should get back into some of my old hobbies and maybe learn something new.

I've been checking out my old martial arts school for starters. I really want to get back into that and learn how to snap a man in half again lol. Just itching to do those combinations again and get some of that bone on bone action to toughen me up - what i mean is that we didn't really punch bags a lot but rather practiced on each other. Walking through Bankstown station on Friday night and through the Viet areas wasn't a very comfortable experience. The fact that I took a quick shortcut through two semi lit alleys to get to a restaurant was actually quite a dumb idea even though i always take that shortcut in the day time. DJ, you got to be street smart about these things.

Also, after going to a couple of salsa clubs with Rob and PJ, I realised that I'd like to actually know the steps. So I'm looking to take a salsa class on a week night like Salsa Vibes. I know a lot of people doing it and looks like fun. And as Terry put it accurately, girls actually want to dance with you unlike at RNB clubs! haha.

On the creative front, I've also been looking at some classes at Sydney Community College. There's some interesting photography classes, journalism, and film clubs going on. I'd love to do the photography one except after the basic class you need a manual camera, and those things are quite expensive. In fact, I suspect photography is quite an expensive hobby. The film club looks alright, except I dont want to watch a lot of boring films! Though I'd love to expand my film knowledge (hey it might be a great conversation starter?).

On the weird front, I came across a criminal psychology course. At one stage in my first year at uni, I was really into my criminal law class and spoke to my lecturer about changing to do law and criminolgy degree. Then I spoke to my current law firm employer who advised me against any sort of career with criminals. Bring that stuff home with you she said. Well I wanted to be Criminal Minded. Maybe its my chance now.

PJ's also mentioned to me about taking a capoeria class - that brazilian sommersault cartwheel to the sound of beating drums dance. Except that it is a lot more complicated that it looks. Plus I know I'm going to look stupid doing that and has no practical use. Imagine getting robbed at Bankstown in some dark alley and breaking out into one of those brazillian cartwheels. Well maybe I shouldn't be walking down dark alleys in the first place!

On the hip hop front, The Alchaholiks tour is coming to sydney. Rocking at Gaelic Theatre August 31st. Probably going so hip hop heads holla back. Also copped The Game "Documentary" and Missy Elliot's "CookBook" LP. Yes I bought them - feel like giving back to artists instead of downloading. Currently in heavy rotation: Ne-yo's "So Sick"

And I'm so sick of love songs/
So tired of tears/
So done with wishing you were still here/
Said I'm so sick of love songs so sad and slow/
So why can't I turn off the radio?

I'm out,

DJ Ho.

Tuesday, August 15, 2006

And that's one small step for DJ HO....

Suprisingly I'm not doing too bad after running/walking 14kms in Sunday's City 2 Surf. Apparently its 30,000 steps. I walked up the hilly bits and ran the downhill and flat parts. I didn't really push myself too hard given that last year I ended up in the physio a few days later.

Official Time = 130mins, but apparently you get a 8 min discount for being in HSBC start. So I actually did worse this year (122 mins) even though I started much further ahead. FYI last year's time was 120mins.

I'll train for next year, I promise.

Let's get Blown

Not sure how but I've managed to blow $150 each Friday in the last couple of weeks. For example, let's look at last Friday:

- Lunch @ Kingsley Steak House: Steak, side dishes, bottle of wine with 2 friends. $55. Each !!!!! This place is weird. it's like some kind of power lunch joint where only middle aged white males go. It's either a gay hangout or expensive busines lunch place. Imagine the looks I got, when I rolled into that place with 2 girls. And they were the only two females in the whole restaurant. You know how DJ Ho rolls.

- Dinner @ Capitan Torres: Tapas between 5 random people. $36 each! In fact, I don't even know these people. I know the sister of one of these guys. But it was some of the best food I've had in a while.

- Drinks @ Brooklyn Hotel & Cruise Bar: $50! Drinking and shouting people to Scotch & Dry's, Bourbon & Cokes, Beers can become expensive.

So that's $140 in one day. Man.

This friday night, I'm gonna head straight home.

I'm out like $150 Fridays,

DJ Ho.

Wednesday, August 09, 2006

Lets Talk About Sex

Raunchy music influences teens' sexual habits

The Age
August 8, 2006

TEENAGERS whose music players are full of music with raunchy, sexual lyrics start having sex sooner than those who prefer other songs, a study has found.
Whether it's hip-hop, rap, pop or rock, much of popular music aimed at teens contains sexual overtones. Its influence on their behaviour appears to depend on how the sex is portrayed, researchers found.

Songs depicting men as "sex-driven studs," women as sex objects and with explicit references to sex acts are more likely to trigger early sexual behaviour than those where sexual references are more veiled and relationships appear more committed, the US-based Rand Corporation study found. Teens who said they listened to lots of music with degrading sexual messages were almost twice as likely to start having intercourse or other sexual activities within the following two years as other teens who listened to little or no sexually degrading music.

Among heavy listeners, 51 per cent started having sex within two years, versus 29 per cent of those who said they listened to little or no sexually degrading music.

The Recording Industry Association of America declined to comment on the findings but Benjamin Chavis, chief executive of the Hip-Hip Summit Action Network, a coalition of musicians and industry executives, said explicit lyrics are a cultural expression reflecting "social and economic realities."

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What do I think? Of course sexually explicit lyrics would influence teenagers to having sex. But its one of many factors. Everything influences. It doesn't take a genuis to recognise the link. The people around you, your friends, your parents, and the people that interact with, the tv shows you watch, what you read, and what you music you listen to are just as likely to influence you. We are a product of our surroundings.

But its not logical to pinpoint one single factor like music and say "hey's that's the trigger". The article says something along the lines that "teenagers that listen to sexually explicit lyrics are twice as more likely to have more sex". C'mon, those teenagers are probably the same ones that are outgoing, that actually hang out with the opposite sex, that watch MA rated movies (shock, horror!), that are in relationships. That study proves nothing.

I will say one thing though. I believe that there is a link between people that are violent and violent movies. But you can't argue that everyone that watches violent movies is violent. However, I do think that a large proportion of violent people do watch violent movies. Is this an exception? Does this same analogy apply to listeners of sexually explicit lyrics and their sexual activities? I doubt it.

Let's look at some songs that pop up in my mind. Exhibit A, is Kelis on "Milkshake":

"My milkshake brings all the boys to the yard/
And their like/
It's better than yours/
Damn right it's better than yours/
I can teach you, But I have to charge/"

There's no doubt these are sexually explicit lyrics, but do you see some teenage girl acting like this? Of course not.

What about Fatman Scoop on Love Like This? Check the lyrics:

"To all my niggaz that hit it from the back/
Who wanna have sex with no strings attached"

That's not so bad is it? He's just saying I like the view from behind and I don't want commitment. Maybe the next couple of lines reveals his true intention:

"Lets Go! Who f*ckin' tonite Who f*ckin' tonite Who f*ckin' tonite?"

Hmmmmm.....maybe not the best example. Notorious B.I.G on the song "Big Booty Hoes" (I can hear the alarm bells ringing immediately) said the following opening lines:

"I got a bitch that suck my d*ck til I nut/
Spit it on my gut and slurp that sh*t back up/
Ain't that a slut (HELL YEA) she even take it in the butt
F*ck for bout a hour, now she want a golden shower"

Graphic, yes. Notorious was always ones to paint vivid pictures with his words whether they be violent, sexual, or deathly. Mr 50 cent on one of the biggest radio songs in the last 5 years came up with "In Da Club":

"I'm into having sex, I ain't into making love/
So come give me a hug if you into getting rubbed"

Sexually explicit lyrics are everywhere in popular songs. But does that mean people are more likely to have sex because they listen to these songs? I don't think so. Most people with a shred of reasoning and logic are not going to act on a impulse because they saw something in a movie or heard a line in a song. Yeah it might influence them, but then so do a million other things.

Perhaps Salt N Pepper said it best:

Let's talk about sex for now to the people at home or in the crowd/
It keeps coming up anyhow/
Don't decoy, avoid, or make void the topic/
Cuz that ain't gonna stop it/
Now we talk about sex on the radio and video shows..........
Those who think it's dirty have a choice/
Pick up the needle, press pause, or turn the radio off/
Will that stop us, Pep? I doubt it/
All right then, come on, Spin